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19 May

Uncondtional Love vs Conditional Love

Ward Edward Barcafer Jr. Blog, Love 0 0

[Tell me a little more about love. Why were we not born in unconditional love and or why we don’t keep it?]

Sue: Actually, we are born in unconditional love. Every baby shows unconditional love. It is only after a baby/child learns from it’s parents or relatives that some things it thinks are perhaps strange, the fact that it always smiles, at least most of the time, even when things go wrong with the handling of the child. Then the baby/child starts hearing some arguments or [through] some unfortunate discipline does the baby start to wonder about the love or lack thereof, that it sees around it, that starts to dampen all of that enthusiasm and unconditional love that came out of birth.

Therefore, incredulity and resistance sets in and in most cases the child starts questioning it’s emotion of unconditional love. Then the child goes on to the only things it knows then, is to duplicate what it’s parents or guardians feels about life. So that beautiful love starts to in most cases to disintegrate into worry, concern and sometimes actual fear about life. Hope that answers your question?

 

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Written by Ward Edward Barcafer Jr.

This is a book about life after death as provided to me through journaling and a series of extraordinary events by my wife, Suzette Delashmet Shockley, after her demise. When these events started to happen, I, having not known or even thought about life after someone has passed, was in disbelief myself and turned to find out, research, and listen for answers to really see what was happening. In reading and talking with some people that did believe in life after death, I kept an open mind. As these activities happened one by one, what was happening made sense to me because as I took it as a continuing series of events, I saw something was happening that was out of the ordinary. It was in fact very extraordinary and could not, as we know it, be of a human perspective of life on this planet. I now know that when a person loses a good friend, a spouse, a child, or other loving relationship, the deceased person can come through. I believe the stronger the love vibration between the one that has passed and the one left behind, the easier and the stronger will be the connection between them. My books are available through Amazon: "Beyond Earth Through Heaven's Gates: Communication and Insights from Our Spiritual World" and "Beyond the Veil to Heaven".


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